Baby Nap Basics for All Ages: Your Daytime Sleep Questions Answered
Many parents wonder what a ‘typical’ schedule looks like for their child. The truth is that every baby is different, but there are some baby nap basics that work for most children six months and older. If you have a younger child, I would encourage you to follow their natural sleepy-time cues for naps and nighttime sleep, and I will write about newborn sleep in a different article.
The goal of napping is to allow your baby to complete a sleep cycle and get refreshing sleep, which means that the absolute minimum time for a nap is 45 minutes. Anything less and you’re looking at a “disaster nap.” Learn:
- Recommended sleep hours
- Sleep cues
- Naps at each age
- Tips for naptime
- Using The Shuffle for naps
Drowsy But Awake
In order to encourage a healthy nap and nighttime schedule, six months is the perfect time to start employing the “drowsy but awake” practice, and put your baby to sleep in their crib awake and aware they are being put down. Doing so will begin to teach your baby to put herself to sleep without the need of a sleep crutch such as a bottle, nursing, or rocking.
Want to know more?
Read: Drowsy But Awake — The Cornerstone of Successful Sleep Training
Recommended Average Sleep Times
Watch for Sleepy Cues at Nap Time
When you are nap coaching, it’s important to watch your baby closely for sleep cues while you are helping him learn to fall asleep on his own. Some examples of sleep cues are:
- Fussing and whining
- Staring off
- Rubbing ears and eyes
- Losing interest in toys or playing
- Sucking thumb; and, of course
Naps from Six to Eight Months
Between six and eight months, your baby should be taking a minimum of two 1.5 to 2 hour naps or a total of 3-3.5 hours of naps. If your baby is not getting the optimal 1.5 hours per nap, you may want to offer a late afternoon nap just before dinner. The optional third nap should be no longer than an hour to ensure that your baby is ready to sleep again at bedtime. During nap coaching, it is ok to use motion sleep for this third optional nap. This “bonus” nap usually goes away by 9 months if your baby is napping well.
You may have already noticed that your baby begins to give you sleepy cues around 6:30 or 7:00 p.m. and wakes for the day between 6:00 or 7:00 a.m. Often, babies are ready for a nap as soon as 1.5 to 2 hours after the initial wake up, and again in the early afternoon, usually between 2-3 hours from waking from a reasonable morning nap. If your baby hasn’t reached this stage yet, don’t worry. Start keeping a log in case there is a pattern you are missing and focus on making sure your baby is getting enough daytime sleep for their age.
Struggling with short naps, no naps, or just wondering when to schedule naps?
We have you covered with Gentle Sleep Solutions, which will help you create a typical schedule based on age, and walk you through nap-training.
Naps from Nine to Twelve Months
Sometime between nine and twelve months, your baby will most likely give up their third optional afternoon nap if they were taking one, and transition to just two naps each day. They’ll take a shorter, mid morning nap, and a longer, afternoon nap. Be sure that your baby is only napping for about 1.5 hours in the morning.
With your twelve month old, the morning nap should be no longer than an hour. Timing at this age is very important. You want to start the afternoon nap approximately three hours after the end of your morning nap. That means asleep within three hours. This is important because if your baby sleeps too long, then she may have trouble falling asleep for the afternoon nap.
For example, your nine month old may wake at 7:00 a.m., take her first nap from 9:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m., and an afternoon nap beginning at 1:30 p.m., waking between 3:00 and 3:30 p.m.
Your twelve month old may wake at 7:00 a.m., take his first nap from 9:00 to 10:00 a.m., and begin the afternoon nap at 1:00 p.m., waking between 3:00 and 3:30 p.m.
Naps from Thirteen to Eighteen Months
As you can see, naps, like your quickly growing baby, are constantly evolving. Be prepared for another naptime change between thirteen and eighteen months, as your baby will likely shift to only needing one nap a day.
This nap is typically a two hour-long mid-afternoon nap — perhaps from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. Hopefully your baby has mastered putting herself to sleep by this last nap change, if not, it’s not too late! And the good news? Most toddlers continue this single nap until they are three or four years old, at which time they can transition to quiet time.
Is your toddler ready to drop to one nap?
Read: Drop to One Nap — Is My Toddler Ready for a Single Nap?
Baby Nap Basics
1. Look for Nap Readiness
Watch for your baby’s daytime sleep cues. You don’t want to wait until she’s past the point of tired to encourage a nap.
2. Create a Good Nap Environment
You want your baby to have some wind down time before her nap to help get her ready to transition into sleep. Try to encourage quiet activities such as reading a book, quiet music, or even nursing or bottle-feeding. Just be careful that your baby doesn’t fall asleep while they are eating!
3. A Dark, Quiet Room
If your baby’s room is bright and sunlit, your baby is not going to sleep. Consider room darkening shades, and even a white noise machine to block outside noise to help create a sleep-inducing environment.
4. Naptime is an Abbreviated Bedtime
Just like at bedtime, naptime is a time for your baby to sleep. Encourage sleep by putting your baby down drowsy but awake.
Use The Shuffle at Nap Time
Remember that during nap coaching you may need to help encourage your baby to sleep, which means you may be checking on her for a full hour. Review The Sleep Lady Shuffle, and know that she will learn to put herself to sleep in a couple weeks.
Need to review The Sleep Lady Shuffle?
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