Last updated on April 4th, 2024

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Kim West, MSW, Mom of 2, creator of The Sleep Lady Shuffle

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A Nap Schedule for Every Age: Help Your Child Nap Well

Parents often wonder when their baby will settle into a “perfect” nap schedule. This can feel quite elusive when you have a newborn, but knowing what to expect based on your baby’s age and development can help.

It’s important to set realistic expectations and to understand nap basics and how to transition your child from two naps to one and then to a quiet time. I advise parents to follow some guidelines based upon a child’s age.

Learn about:

  • nap schedules for each age group
  • the “disaster nap”
  • dropping naps and nap transitions
  • dealing with nap resistance

nap scheduleNewborn to 5 Months

Newborns need as much sleep as possible. Most parents of newborns find that four to five naps per day is not uncommon.

However, newborns don’t settle into a morning nap schedule until about 12 to 16 weeks of age. Until then, babies sleep at a variety of times — and for a varied length of time —throughout the day. So at this young age, focus on getting those naps in any way you can. Don’t fret if your baby seems to be dependent on you to get to sleep each time. It’s so important for his rapidly growing brain and body that he gets as much sleep as he needs.

Remember you can’t spoil a newborn! Your goal is to promote good sleep and a close, warm connection between you and your baby. Overall your newborn to 5-month-old should sleep around 12 to 17 hours in a 24-hour period.

6 to 8 Months

Most 6 to 8-month-old babies settle into a nap schedule that includes two or three naps per day. Ideally the morning and afternoon naps are about 90 minutes each. Some babies need a one-hour (maximum) late afternoon nap to help them make it to bedtime without becoming overtired. From 6 months until 12 months your child needs 12 to 16 hours of total sleep a day, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics’ sleep guidelines.

9 Months to 12 Months

Most children give up the third, late afternoon nap by 9 months — especially if they are napping well for the first two naps. If you notice that your baby takes a long morning nap and a short afternoon nap, you may want to consider shortening the morning nap to no longer than 90 minutes.

Want to know more?
Read: Naps, Naps, and Naps! When, Why, and How to Get Your Baby to Nap

13 to 18 Months

Between 13 and 18 months most children transition naturally to a new nap schedule by dropping their morning nap. Once the child has made that transition, the afternoon nap is ideally two hours and often begins between 12:30 and 2 p.m. If your 12 to 15-month-old has a morning nap, it should be kept to one hour at most if you notice your toddler is resisting his afternoon nap.

18 Months and Beyond

Your child will continue with their established one nap schedule until they are ready to transition to quiet time. Your child is likely to stop napping between 3 and 4 years of age.

Toddlers still need a nap schedule:
Read: Drop to One Nap — Is My Toddler Ready for a Single Nap?

nap scheduleAvoid The Disaster Nap

Any nap that is shorter than 45 minutes for children over 6 months is a “disaster nap.” Such a short nap doesn’t encompass a full sleep cycle, so babies wake up cranky and tired rather than refreshed. You may notice an increase in disaster naps if your child’s nap schedule changes, like at daycare. I her wakefulness window — or the amount of time she’s usually awake — is exceeded, that can also cause cranky behavior. If a change in sleep schedule due to daycare is the culprit, try working with your daycare provider to reach a better nap schedule for your child.

Nap Time Resistance is Normal

As children grow up, they begin to test boundaries, including their nap routine. Don’t give up, though. Your child needs a nap until 3 or 4 years of age. If your child is resisting naps and nearing a time of transition — when a nap is dropped or he’s able to stay awake longer — you can make adjustments. Your baby may be more willing to nap at a different time in the morning or perhaps a little later in the afternoon. Also, adjust bedtime according to how naps go during the day. It’s important to keep a routine that is flexible.

For a 15-month-old, your flexible schedule may look like this:

  • 6:30 to 7 a.m. wake-up
  • 9 a.m. morning nap
  • 1 p.m. afternoon nap
  • 7 to 7:30 p.m. bedtime

If you experience resistance, you can adjust so the nap schedule looks like this:

  • 6:30 to 7 a.m. wake-up
  • 10 a.m. morning nap
  • 1:30 p.m. afternoon nap
  • 7 to 7:30 p.m. bedtime

A second adjustment for a resistant napper who is older than 15 months may look like this:

  • 7 a.m. wake-up
  • 12:30 p.m. afternoon nap
  • 7 p.m. bedtime.

Transitioning From a Two Nap Schedule to One Nap

On average, children transition from two naps to one between 15 and 18 months of age. You will begin to notice some of these typical signs when it’s time to transition:

  • The morning nap starts later and later.
  • The child isn’t sleeping during her morning naptime.
  • The child is taking a really big morning nap and not feeling tired for an afternoon nap.
  • By the time they feel ready for an afternoon nap, it’s too late: It’s 4:30 or 5 p.m., and a nap at this time will disrupt bedtime.

Watch for these kinds of signs consistently for about a week before you decide to transition from two naps to one. Then, push the start of naptime to about 12 p.m., then 12:30 p.m., and eventually move it to 1 p.m.

Your child may wake up cranky and still tired after an hour and a half. You can try to extend the nap by going in and saying, “It’s not wake-up time, yet. Let’s go back to sleep,” and give him 15 more minutes. This may not work, but it’s worth a shot.

During this transition time, he may nod off later in the day while on a walk, for instance, and that’s OK. Let him doze for less than 30 minutes and wake him so that he will be ready for bedtime at a good hour. Until his one afternoon nap is well established, his bedtime may need to be earlier than 8 p.m. During this adjustment phase, it may be closer to 7 p.m.

After a few one-nap days, you may notice excessive crankiness or behavioral issues, which may mean he needs a morning nap. But only let it go 45 minutes, waking him at that point so he can still take an afternoon nap. Be open to an occasional two-nap day during this transition period.

Ready for Quiet Time?
Read: Dropping The Afternoon Nap — Transitioning To Quiet Time For Toddlers

When Your Child Is Ready For Quiet Time

Your toddler or preschooler may drop her nap one day and need it the next. Don’t assume she doesn’t need a nap just because she seemed fine without it the day or two before. Offer her the option of a nap in an environment suited to promote sleep — dark, quiet, cool temperature, familiar items and bedding.
She may choose to enjoy some quiet time instead. Just be sure she is getting between 10 and 13 hours of sleep a day.

Even when children stop napping, they still need a period of quiet time to help them rest, refresh and regroup midway through their day. Introduce a quiet time gradually so that the transition is smooth. Set some ground rules such as: no loud instruments and only certain activities, like an audio story or books to look at, as well as establishing when they can come out of their room. Stick to the boundaries you set.

Start with just 15 minutes of quiet time and gradually increase it in intervals of 15 to 20 minutes.

Struggling with short naps, no naps, or just wondering when to schedule naps?

We have you covered with Gentle Sleep Solutions, which will help you create a typical schedule based on age, and walk you through nap-training.

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Some parents find that a calm, brief video with a healthy snack sets the stage for quiet time. Others find going right into playing quietly works best for their child. Experiment with each to find what suits your preschooler.

If your child naps intermittently — a few days on and a few days off — continue that nap schedule as needed and add in the option of a quiet time when he doesn’t feel like sleeping.

Remember, naptime sleep is different than nighttime sleep. There is more going on — the noise and light levels are different, and sometimes babies just don’t want to miss anything.

Every baby goes through a period of struggle with finding the perfect naptime. Watching for your child’s wakefulness windows, looking for signs of tiredness and remaining consistent with your baby’s routine will help to ensure that she is getting enough quality naptime sleep.

This article originally appeared in US News and World Report.


Author: Kim West, MSW, Mom of 2, creator of The Sleep Lady Shuffle

My name is Kim West, and I’m the mother of two beautiful girls, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who has been a practicing child and family therapist for more than 21 years, and the creator of the original gentle, proven method to get a good night’s sleep for you and your child. My sleep journey began when I started experimenting with gently shaping my daughter’s sleep by not following the conventional wisdom at the time. After having success (and then more success with my second daughter!), I began helping family and friends and my step-by-step method spread like wildfire, exactly like an excellent night of sleep for a tired parent should!